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> <channel><title>Comments on: Perfection Doesn&#8217;t Exist</title> <atom:link href="http://www.moneyrelationship.com/debt/perfect-finances-do-not-exist/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://www.moneyrelationship.com/debt/perfect-finances-do-not-exist/</link> <description>Eliminate Debt, Enjoy Life</description> <lastBuildDate>Wed, 08 Feb 2012 06:34:04 +0000</lastBuildDate> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1</generator> <xhtml:meta xmlns:xhtml="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml" name="robots" content="noindex" /> <item><title>By: Financial Samurai</title><link>http://www.moneyrelationship.com/debt/perfect-finances-do-not-exist/#comment-4474</link> <dc:creator>Financial Samurai</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 08 Aug 2010 17:06:45 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.moneyrelationship.com/?p=2456#comment-4474</guid> <description>Hey Adam, just go out there and write man!  Write on your site and do what you will.  It&#039;s funny to me that others care SO MUCH about what other people think, when it&#039;s their own site!
If you speak words every day, you can certainly write every day too yeah?
Go for it!</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Adam, just go out there and write man!  Write on your site and do what you will.  It&#8217;s funny to me that others care SO MUCH about what other people think, when it&#8217;s their own site!</p><p>If you speak words every day, you can certainly write every day too yeah?</p><p>Go for it!</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: heaps!</title><link>http://www.moneyrelationship.com/debt/perfect-finances-do-not-exist/#comment-4387</link> <dc:creator>heaps!</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 05 Jul 2010 22:47:03 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.moneyrelationship.com/?p=2456#comment-4387</guid> <description>The part where you mentioned how your goals should be attainable is probably the most important. Many times, people set up budgets that are really meant to be for machines and they find themselves frustrated in the end. And then they give up the strict budgets they have set up.
Some breathing room is a must have in any spending plan. There are always things that come up in life that you don&#039;t have any control over, and you need that extra cushion in your budget to allow that necessary variable spending.
And the goals of course gives purpose to your budget. What else would be the point of saving so much money? Not to give love to your bank account, but to either pay off your debt, or (even better), that vacation, car, TV, etc. that you&#039;ve been wanting for quite some time.
Good post.
Cheers,
Wahid</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The part where you mentioned how your goals should be attainable is probably the most important. Many times, people set up budgets that are really meant to be for machines and they find themselves frustrated in the end. And then they give up the strict budgets they have set up.</p><p>Some breathing room is a must have in any spending plan. There are always things that come up in life that you don&#8217;t have any control over, and you need that extra cushion in your budget to allow that necessary variable spending.</p><p>And the goals of course gives purpose to your budget. What else would be the point of saving so much money? Not to give love to your bank account, but to either pay off your debt, or (even better), that vacation, car, TV, etc. that you&#8217;ve been wanting for quite some time.<br
/> Good post.</p><p>Cheers,<br
/> Wahid</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Carnival of Money Stories Independence Day Edition</title><link>http://www.moneyrelationship.com/debt/perfect-finances-do-not-exist/#comment-4386</link> <dc:creator>Carnival of Money Stories Independence Day Edition</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 05 Jul 2010 17:05:05 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.moneyrelationship.com/?p=2456#comment-4386</guid> <description>[...] from Money Relationship tells us Perfection Doesn&#039;t Exist. Adam&#8217;s money experience has been that he tries to be a perfectionist and he&#8217;s going to [...]</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] from Money Relationship tells us Perfection Doesn&#8217;t Exist. Adam&#8217;s money experience has been that he tries to be a perfectionist and he&#8217;s going to [...]</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Adam</title><link>http://www.moneyrelationship.com/debt/perfect-finances-do-not-exist/#comment-4384</link> <dc:creator>Adam</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sat, 03 Jul 2010 12:59:44 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.moneyrelationship.com/?p=2456#comment-4384</guid> <description>What you described is kind of how I dealt with my blog posts. They were &quot;perfect&quot; in my mind but I was trying to look at it through the eyes of every single person that visits this site. You know what, you can&#039;t make everyone happy and there is always going to be someone somewhere that criticizes my writing and how we handle our finances. I just have to learn how to accept it.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What you described is kind of how I dealt with my blog posts. They were &#8220;perfect&#8221; in my mind but I was trying to look at it through the eyes of every single person that visits this site. You know what, you can&#8217;t make everyone happy and there is always going to be someone somewhere that criticizes my writing and how we handle our finances. I just have to learn how to accept it.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Adam</title><link>http://www.moneyrelationship.com/debt/perfect-finances-do-not-exist/#comment-4383</link> <dc:creator>Adam</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sat, 03 Jul 2010 12:53:59 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.moneyrelationship.com/?p=2456#comment-4383</guid> <description>Well, welcome! I&#039;m glad you stopped by.
I should let you know that there are better things to come. The posts from the past aren&#039;t the greatest but they got the job done!</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, welcome! I&#8217;m glad you stopped by.</p><p>I should let you know that there are better things to come. The posts from the past aren&#8217;t the greatest but they got the job done!</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Leslie</title><link>http://www.moneyrelationship.com/debt/perfect-finances-do-not-exist/#comment-4382</link> <dc:creator>Leslie</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sat, 03 Jul 2010 12:49:29 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.moneyrelationship.com/?p=2456#comment-4382</guid> <description>I found your blog post through a link up from Frugal Dad.... so it was &quot;perfect&quot; enough to get linked up! :-) I think I&#039;ll go look at the rest of your blog because I enjoyed this one very much.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I found your blog post through a link up from Frugal Dad&#8230;. so it was &#8220;perfect&#8221; enough to get linked up! <img
src='http://www.moneyrelationship.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> I think I&#8217;ll go look at the rest of your blog because I enjoyed this one very much.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: steven@hundredgoals.com</title><link>http://www.moneyrelationship.com/debt/perfect-finances-do-not-exist/#comment-4381</link> <dc:creator>steven@hundredgoals.com</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sat, 03 Jul 2010 02:31:05 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.moneyrelationship.com/?p=2456#comment-4381</guid> <description>Ironic that you specifically mention a trip to Hawaii since that&#039;s where I&#039;ve been the past week and a half and am sitting right now! ;)
Perfection...Its in the eye of the beholder, my friend.  It does exist, if a person is willing to accept reality.  I think the problem with perfection is not perfection itself but in believing there is something beyond perfection.  It is the belief that there is more and better, when the reality is simply that, well, there isn&#039;t.  What is, is...and that is perfection.  Our minds play tricks on us.  We are conditioned to feel like our best is not enough, that our abilities are weak and need to be improved.  We&#039;re wrong!
What we should actually strive for is realizing that perfection surrounds us, even in the flaws, and that reality is perfection.  Sitting here in Hawaii, a couple minutes walk from the Na Pali Coast in Kauai, I could walk down the beach and step on peices of coral that washed up on the beach, hurting my feet.  I could tell myself &quot;THIS isn&#039;t what I expected Hawaii to be like!&quot;  Instead, I tell myself &quot;THIS is Hawaii and it is exactly as it should be.&quot;
Creativity might be different from accepting life&#039;s flaws and reality despite our imaginations since we have control over what is being produced but if you are seeking absolute perfection without producing anything, what good is that?  Clearly you&#039;ve realized this and good for you!  Looking back at many of my oldest blog posts, I ask myself what in the world I was thinking!  At the time I thought what I was writing was good, I spent a lot of time writing those articles but now they don&#039;t seem as good as they once were and surely what I write today won&#039;t be as good as I thought it was a year from now.
Enjoy the flaws for they are what make us grow as individuals.  They give us character and make us less...sterile.  We are human and therefore prone to error, and without error we are unable to expand our experiences and understanding.
Keep up the good work! :)</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ironic that you specifically mention a trip to Hawaii since that&#8217;s where I&#8217;ve been the past week and a half and am sitting right now! <img
src='http://www.moneyrelationship.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /></p><p>Perfection&#8230;Its in the eye of the beholder, my friend.  It does exist, if a person is willing to accept reality.  I think the problem with perfection is not perfection itself but in believing there is something beyond perfection.  It is the belief that there is more and better, when the reality is simply that, well, there isn&#8217;t.  What is, is&#8230;and that is perfection.  Our minds play tricks on us.  We are conditioned to feel like our best is not enough, that our abilities are weak and need to be improved.  We&#8217;re wrong!</p><p>What we should actually strive for is realizing that perfection surrounds us, even in the flaws, and that reality is perfection.  Sitting here in Hawaii, a couple minutes walk from the Na Pali Coast in Kauai, I could walk down the beach and step on peices of coral that washed up on the beach, hurting my feet.  I could tell myself &#8220;THIS isn&#8217;t what I expected Hawaii to be like!&#8221;  Instead, I tell myself &#8220;THIS is Hawaii and it is exactly as it should be.&#8221;</p><p>Creativity might be different from accepting life&#8217;s flaws and reality despite our imaginations since we have control over what is being produced but if you are seeking absolute perfection without producing anything, what good is that?  Clearly you&#8217;ve realized this and good for you!  Looking back at many of my oldest blog posts, I ask myself what in the world I was thinking!  At the time I thought what I was writing was good, I spent a lot of time writing those articles but now they don&#8217;t seem as good as they once were and surely what I write today won&#8217;t be as good as I thought it was a year from now.</p><p>Enjoy the flaws for they are what make us grow as individuals.  They give us character and make us less&#8230;sterile.  We are human and therefore prone to error, and without error we are unable to expand our experiences and understanding.</p><p>Keep up the good work! <img
src='http://www.moneyrelationship.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /></p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Len Penzo</title><link>http://www.moneyrelationship.com/debt/perfect-finances-do-not-exist/#comment-4380</link> <dc:creator>Len Penzo</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sat, 03 Jul 2010 01:28:42 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.moneyrelationship.com/?p=2456#comment-4380</guid> <description>Gosh darn it, Adam! You were supposed to play along with me and say you were being clever! :-)  LOL</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Gosh darn it, Adam! You were supposed to play along with me and say you were being clever! <img
src='http://www.moneyrelationship.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> LOL</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Adam</title><link>http://www.moneyrelationship.com/debt/perfect-finances-do-not-exist/#comment-4379</link> <dc:creator>Adam</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sat, 03 Jul 2010 00:23:51 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.moneyrelationship.com/?p=2456#comment-4379</guid> <description>It was great meeting you too. You have a great family!
Oh, and that was a grammatical error. It&#039;s fixed now!</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It was great meeting you too. You have a great family!</p><p>Oh, and that was a grammatical error. It&#8217;s fixed now!</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Len Penzo</title><link>http://www.moneyrelationship.com/debt/perfect-finances-do-not-exist/#comment-4375</link> <dc:creator>Len Penzo</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 02 Jul 2010 02:01:40 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.moneyrelationship.com/?p=2456#comment-4375</guid> <description>Adam,
First off, let me say that it was a pleasure meeting you last week in Washington DC!
I, too, often find myself tied up in knots, stuck in a state of inaction, because I am afraid of failure (and/or perfection).
Thanks for the inspirational post!  It is a terrific affirmation that it is good to be just, well, good!
By the way, did you intentionally write your fourth sentence the way you did when you said:
&quot;Well, I&#039;m hear (sic) to tell you that perfection does not exist.&quot;
If not, it was a nice touch anyway!  ;-)  LOL
All the best,
Len
Len Penzo dot Com</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Adam,</p><p>First off, let me say that it was a pleasure meeting you last week in Washington DC!</p><p>I, too, often find myself tied up in knots, stuck in a state of inaction, because I am afraid of failure (and/or perfection).</p><p>Thanks for the inspirational post!  It is a terrific affirmation that it is good to be just, well, good!</p><p>By the way, did you intentionally write your fourth sentence the way you did when you said:</p><p>&#8220;Well, I&#8217;m hear (sic) to tell you that perfection does not exist.&#8221;</p><p>If not, it was a nice touch anyway! <img
src='http://www.moneyrelationship.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> LOL</p><p>All the best,</p><p>Len<br
/> Len Penzo dot Com</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> </channel> </rss>
