Big Changes and an Even Bigger Confession

Happy holidays everyone! If you are viewing this post on the site, you may notice a big change. I’ve changed the header, updated all pages and made the site easier to navigate. If you are viewing this in a reader or via email, click here to get to the site. I’ve made these changes for reasons that you will find out below.

The Big Confession

As you know, someone by the name of Chris has been posting on the site about his debt. Well, I am here to confess that I am Chris. When I first started blogging, I wanted to share our journey out of debt. However, my wife felt a little different about that. So, I thought I would create a pen name (Chris) to blog under. Did I get ya? Did you know it was me?

Lately, I have been talking to my wife about coming clean and she agreed that it was time. We have had great support from the readers here and over at Frugal Dad (where I am contributing weekly). We now want to share with you our journey out of debt on a more personal level. I think it makes it much easier to follow someone on this type of journey if you can connect with them. That’s why I now have my picture (and my wife’s picture) on the new about page. We want to get to know you and support you in getting debt free just like you will support us. Transparency is our new goal.

The Big Changes

I have also decided to change the way I blog. Long gone are the days where I talked about lipper fund averages and what the best reward credit card is. There are just too many bloggers doing that today. All future posts will be about our journey out of debt and how we live our life while in debt. If you read the about page, my wife and I want to continue to live a somewhat normal life while in debt. We won’t be eating beans and rice. We won’t be making our own deodorant. You never know when something will happen in your life and we don’t want to sacrifice everything to get out of debt 12 months faster.

I am going to try desperately to stick to a schedule. I want to post three times a week here (a post on Monday, a post on Wednesday, and a roundup on Friday). I will also continue to have a weekly post on Frugal Dad (every Friday). The posts will hopefully be a little bit meatier than in the past. I want to put out some quality things that will cause some great discussion here on the site.

Here are some other things that are changing:

  • I want to include many more guest posts.
  • I have removed all Google Adsense for regular readers. As long as you visit the site once every six months, they will not show for you.
  • Advertising will be limited to a single page and will not clutter the sidebar.
  • I want to include much more discussion.
  • I will be creating a free eBook sometime in early 2010.

These are just a few things that will be changing around here. Be sure to comment below about the new design, me being Chris, or suggestions that you want to see in upcoming posts.

Have a great holiday! :-)

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My name is Adam and I am in debt. Yep, I came out and said it in the first sentence. I hope that shows you how passionate I am about getting out of debt and enjoying life in the process. Join my wife and me on our journey and be sure to contribute to the great discussions. You can get FREE email updates about the site as soon as they are posted. If you would like to hear our whole story, visit my about page. Thanks for visiting!

39 Responses to Big Changes and an Even Bigger Confession
  1. Yana
    December 23, 2009 | 11:18 AM

    Nice changes, and I love the picture of you two. You’re a cute couple :)

    • Adam
      December 23, 2009 | 11:36 AM

      Thanks Yana, we know we look good! ;-)

  2. Mrs. Micah
    December 23, 2009 | 12:06 PM

    Congrats, Adam, I’m looking forward to seeing where this journey takes you. I wasn’t expecting you to be Chris, but it makes some sense now that I look back over it. And I understand about your wife’s wanting privacy for a while, it’s a hard thing to get up and admit that you have such a big burden. For me it helps to have a pseudonym, but good for you for coming out about it. :)
    Mrs. Micah´s lastest post ..Finding Joy in December My ComLuv Profile

    • Adam
      December 23, 2009 | 12:11 PM

      Thanks Mrs Micah! Yeah, some people have already mentioned that the writing was very similar. I guess that makes it easier to realize now looking back. :-)

      I think it was a lot easier to come out knowing that the majority of our debt is student loans. If the $150,000 was mostly credit cards and vehicles, I don’t think this transition would have happened. I mean, the family loan we have is still a burden but it is such a small chunk of the total amount.

  3. Martin
    December 23, 2009 | 12:13 PM

    I really like the comment about not sacrificing everything just to get out of debt a few months earlier. I’ve learned the same lesson. Need much more of that thinking in regards to getting out of debt.
    Martin´s lastest post ..Seven Different Wedding DVD Templates now available My ComLuv Profile

    • Adam
      December 23, 2009 | 12:17 PM

      Thanks and that’s truly the way we feel. Why make the next 6 years of you life miserable just to get out of debt 1 year sooner? That logic just doesn’t make sense to me.

      Thanks for commenting and I hope to see you around in the near future!

  4. Paul @ Fiscalgeek
    December 23, 2009 | 12:18 PM

    Hi Adam, my name is Paul and I’m also in debt. Best of luck to you and your wife on your journey, transparency and all. Look forward to your new look and focus.
    Paul @ Fiscalgeek´s lastest post ..45 Days to Debt Freedom How We’ll Raise $8572.91 My ComLuv Profile

    • Adam
      December 23, 2009 | 12:27 PM

      Thanks for the kind words Paul. We hope that you will share your story with us sometime as well.

      I will have to check out that link that you posted. Are you really going to be out of debt in 45 days? I hope so! Best of luck to you as well!

      • Paul @ FiscalGeek
        December 23, 2009 | 12:48 PM

        That is the plan. The clock is ticking and the end of January is what we are looking at we started at $63,535.65 and no not any student debt in there. Believe me when we hit that goal I’ll be everywhere!
        Paul @ FiscalGeek´s lastest post ..Free Gift Wrapping Using Unconventional Materials My ComLuv Profile

        • Adam
          December 23, 2009 | 12:52 PM

          Nice! It must feel great. Looking forward to reader/hearing about it in the future.

  5. Jason@Frugal Dad
    December 23, 2009 | 12:25 PM

    Adam, what you and your wife have done took a lot of guts…bravo! I like your approach making debt freedom a top priority, but not THE top priority. As I like to say over at FD, remember to stop and smell the roses from time to time.

    I look forward to following your progress and one day helping you celebrate debt freedom.
    Jason@Frugal Dad´s lastest post ..What Have You Done Right Lately? My ComLuv Profile

    • Adam
      December 23, 2009 | 12:30 PM

      Thanks Jason! We knew it would be a hard decision and so far, we are glad we made it. I think this approach will give us plenty of accountability. I mean, if we mess up, the readers are going to tell us about it!

      I look forward to continuing to write for Frugal Dad and sharing our journey with your wonderful readers as well.

  6. Frank Frugal
    December 23, 2009 | 12:26 PM

    Hi Adam,

    I just found you thanks to Paul (FiscalGeek)’s RT, and I’m definitely looking forward to your upcoming content.

    Congratulations on making a bold move, but one that I’m sure will end up benefiting both you and your readers. Way to go!
    Frank Frugal´s lastest post ..Have a Festive and Frugal Holiday! My ComLuv Profile

    • Adam
      December 23, 2009 | 12:32 PM

      Hey Frank, thanks for stopping by! I hope you will stick around and join in the discussion in the near future.

  7. Peter
    December 23, 2009 | 12:30 PM

    I knew it!!!! Ok, just kidding. I had no idea. Congrats on the new look – and the fresh new take that you’ll have now that you’ve completely come out and will be up front about your situation. Should be good!
    Peter´s lastest post ..Good Customer Service And The Power Of Social Media: eBillme Goes Above And Beyond To Fix A Problem Through Twitter My ComLuv Profile

    • Adam
      December 23, 2009 | 12:34 PM

      Thanks Pete! We hope that completely coming out will help others who are in our position realize that they are not alone and that debt freedom can be achieved. I mean, it may take a few years in our case, but the end result will be amazing. I envy people like you!

  8. Evolution Of Wealth
    December 23, 2009 | 12:34 PM

    The redesign looks great. It sounds like your content will only get better. I’m glad you are not letting debt rule your life but realize you need to rule debt.
    Evolution Of Wealth´s lastest post ..Gift Cards: Don’t Do It! My ComLuv Profile

    • Adam
      December 23, 2009 | 12:38 PM

      Thanks! I like the simplicity of the new design. I really want readers to focus on the content and not the distracting things like Adsense or crap on the sidebar.

      Our debt is going DOWN!

  9. Patrenia
    December 23, 2009 | 2:17 PM

    Hi Adam, it takes great courage to come clean. I admire that! Great looking blog and I look forward to reading your content.

    • Adam
      December 23, 2009 | 5:24 PM

      Thanks for the comment! Hope to see you around!

  10. Ken
    December 23, 2009 | 4:12 PM

    The header looks great! I look forward to reading more of your stuff.
    Ken´s lastest post ..How to Finance Fun My ComLuv Profile

    • Adam
      December 23, 2009 | 5:25 PM

      Thanks, I actually made it myself. I just found the picture and added the writing in Photoshop.

      Hope to see you around!

  11. Bucksome
    December 23, 2009 | 7:09 PM

    Your header is great. I’m a Dave Ramsey fan, but also have categories in our budget for entertainment, dining out and even vacation. Everything in moderation except it’s all done without new debt.

    Congratulations on your decision to reveal your identity. I still need to keep my blog separate from my business life.
    Bucksome´s lastest post ..How to Spend $1100 on Medical Expenses…Fast My ComLuv Profile

    • Adam
      December 23, 2009 | 8:07 PM

      Thanks! I really like the header too. It almost looks like the person is looking right at my site name.

      Not adding to your debt is a big step. In my opinion, if you are not adding to your debt, you are going in the right direction. It takes a lot of willpower to go from spending with credit to going cash only. Thanks for stopping by!

  12. Bobbi
    December 23, 2009 | 8:21 PM

    Great site and I look forward to reading more. Congrats on the new look and your ‘coming out’ party. :)

    • Adam
      December 23, 2009 | 9:05 PM

      Hey Bobbi! Great to hear from you again (it’s been awhile)!

  13. Emily@remodelingthislife
    December 23, 2009 | 9:39 PM

    Just clicked over for the first time from a twitter link. I am not familiar with your blog from before but the new ideas and path sound great, so I think I’ll stick around :)

    • Adam
      December 23, 2009 | 10:17 PM

      Hey Emily! Thanks for stopping by and I hope you enjoy the future posts. See you in the comment section!

  14. Forest
    December 27, 2009 | 1:46 AM

    Hey Adam,

    I don’t know what the old site looked like but the new one looks great.
    Also congrats on coming clean, i’ll be posting all about my debt very soon too.

    I’m slowly tweaking my site to make it a bit easier on the eyes. Sadly I need the advertising as I earn from my blog and work online full time, but Adsense is hidden for regular readers so it only appears to search traffic.

    Anyway i’ll be sticking around and I am interested in possibly writing a guest post here.
    Forest´s lastest post ..Money Saving Tips My ComLuv Profile

    • Adam
      December 27, 2009 | 10:59 AM

      Thanks for visiting Forest! Looking forward to hearing your story about debt as well.

      I had Adsense only for SE visitors as well but I just didn’t want them to leave the site. My main goal is to keep them on the site and poke around.

      Looking forward to that guest post. Email me!

  15. Money Funk
    December 27, 2009 | 5:58 PM

    Glad to find a new-blog-to-me!

    And as for the transparency to your blog readers… totally makes it so you have to stick to your guns in getting out of debt!
    Money Funk´s lastest post ..How I ended up with $10,000 in my bank My ComLuv Profile

    • Adam
      December 27, 2009 | 10:09 PM

      Glad you found the site! I look forward to hearing from you in the comments.

      I could always use guest posters! ;-)

  16. Steve Rhode
    December 28, 2009 | 6:17 AM

    I’m going to have to start calling you Chrisadam. LOL.

    No worries. It took me 10 years to come out of the closet about my bankruptcy. It was both very hard and very liberating. You will find a new found confidence in your mission and goals of beating debt.

    Congratulations on making the move.

    Steve
    Steve Rhode´s lastest post ..Inside Information on Credit Reports and Credit Scores My ComLuv Profile

    • Adam
      December 28, 2009 | 12:48 PM

      Ha! It just doesn’t have that great of a ring to it.

      I think this decision will be very beneficial to us. It just makes us more aware about our debt because everyone can see it!

  17. Funny about Money
    December 28, 2009 | 10:29 AM

    Really handsome design! Your new approach will make a very interesting blog…and possibly a very interesting book one day. People will find your story compelling and useful.

    Holy mackerel…a hundred and fifty grand in debt, and scarcely a wrinkle on your young faces! Scary. It’s surprising how fast you can pay it down, though, when you’re really determined. And no, you don’t have to eat beans and rice to do it.

    Hm…though I hafta admit, I do love a good bowl of beans. ;-)

    Happy New Year! Looking forward to seeing how much the debt is reduced by 2011.
    Funny about Money´s lastest post ..Bumhood: The fruits of financial freedom My ComLuv Profile

    • Adam
      December 28, 2009 | 12:50 PM

      Thanks for the comment on the design. Handsome is a different way to describe it!

      Yep, $150,000.

      A bowl of beans just isn’t my cup of tea. Yuck!

  18. Jesse
    January 8, 2010 | 1:29 PM

    I know this is belated but way to go man! You did it :) and quite a response from your readers here. I look forward to reading as you progress towards freedom.
    Jesse´s lastest post ..Happy New Year My ComLuv Profile

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